A Lesson Learned From Teendom

If people will be your friends while you're an awkward teenager, you'd better cherish them. Honestly, teenagers are difficult to deal with.

Being warm and kind is better than being cool.

A Night of Prophecy

Tonight at lighthouse, after the message Chris spoke, he told us all to get in a circle and prophesy. I've been wanting the gift of prophesy for a while now, and it turns out that I already had it. Before I actually prophesied, I was prophesied over. It was awesome!

"Faithful... I just keep hearing the word faithful." - big Chris

"Protector." - little Chris

"Overseer." - Andy

"There's hard times ahead, but there's a light at the end of the tunnel." - little Chris

"Just like in the surveying you did over the summer, I keep seeing you looking through the instrument [setting the sight] on something ahead; like Chris was saying with the light at end of the tunnel." - Andy

I don't know yet what exactly those things mean, but I feel like I'll look back on this in the not too distant future and understand.

After I was prophesied over, I prophesied (along with the others) over Chris, David, Mason, Elizabeth, and Andy.

Chris:

I had a vision of Chris running. He wasn't in a race; it seemed like a metaphor for life. He was running, and being recharged every step. Andy saw him running and carrying a torch that brought light to those around him. He said he saw people following Chris.

David:

I had a vision of David sitting beneath a tree that was by a river. I think God was the tree. Like God's influence totally surrounds and supports David. David was just smiling and looking around at the beauty of the scene surrounding him. I also saw a burning fire. I think it was David's fire for God.

Mason:

I saw mason dismantling a wall that was in front of him. He was holding a trowel, and whenever he pushed it into the dry mortar, the mortar loosened up and became wet again so that he could easily scoop the stones into the wall he was building next to him. I saw a sort of bluish essence where the wall had been that looked to me like a bond between Mason and whoever first was behind that wall. Mason was building that wall next to him for protection against 'men of Satan [said little Chris]'. I also saw Mason doing this dorky, funny dance for the amusement of the people inside the wall.

Andy:

Before Andy got in the middle of the circle, he asked all of us to just sit for a minute and be aware of all the angels that were in the room with us. It was really weird because after a while, I started seeing this bluish flying man with multiple faces flying around us like a tornado and smiling exceptionally wide. Then, when I closed my eyes, I saw an incredibly bright, golden man sitting cross-legged next to Andy and smiling just as wide while laughing and rocking back and forth. It was a victory laugh. After Andy got in the middle of the circle, I could close my eyes and see the golden man [which I'm now positive was an angel] standing behind Andy, bending over him and rubbing his shoulders. When I said this, Andy said he could feel it. Then, I saw Andy looking over a great distance across the sea to the lighthouse surrounded by a forest packed with trees that were a dark green. Andy was looking over and smiling like he was remembering something. I kept seeing that golden angel.

Elizabeth:

When Elizabeth got in the middle, I immediately felt like crying. I'm not sure why. It wasn't negative at all though. I seeing a vision of her sitting and listening to people. She nodded her head like she understood whatever it was that she was listening to. Big Chris said he kept experiencing a quickened heart beat that moved to his extremities. Little Chris and Andy and Mason continually talked about Elizabeth being a light source that spread through the darkness in various ways. I heard in my head God telling me, "Tell her to remember that she's special to me." Even now as I type this, I can remember the power of the words and it's making me cry. Big Chris said he heard, "Big Momma". I have no idea how that is significant.

God is moving in unprecedented ways in Lakehills. Big things are coming.

The First Christmas As I See It

This story is in no way to be thought of a s direct translation. I'm telling all of you readers what I imagine when I read the Bible's account of Christmas.  It's filled with anachronisms and additional, possibly fictitious descriptions.  If you want an absolutely accurate account, read the actual passages I've referenced.  I hope you'll think about Christmas in a new way after reading this:

{From Luke 1:26-39"}

God sent His angel, Gabriel, to Nazareth, Galilee

so that he could talk to Joseph's fiancée, a virgin named Mary.

The angel said to her, "Get excited! You are a very blessed woman because God has found favor with you."

Then Mary was like, "Oh crap, I'm going to die. Or else, I've gone crazy."

The angel saw her worried look and said, "Whoa, Mary.  Seriously, don't freak out.  God likes you. 

In fact, pretty soon you'll be pregnant with a baby boy whose name will be Jesus.

He's going to be great, and God's going to give Him David's throne.

And, He'll reign over the Jews and His kingdom will last forever."

Then Mary did a double-take and said, "How can I be pregnant when I've never had sex?"

The angel replied, "God isn't limited by anything.  So, Jesus' only Father will be God.

Elizabeth, your relative, is also pregnant.  She, who was barren is now in last month of her second trimester.

Because, with God, nothing is impossible!  Like I said, God is not limited."

Mary was floored by this news and said, "I'll serve the Lord and have this Baby!" Then, the angel left.

Mary went to visit Elizabeth for a while.

When she returned, she was showing.

Joseph was pretty hurt when he saw this and suspected that she had cheated on him while she was gone.  If nothing else, he thought, Mary had dishonored him by being promiscuous.  Besides, Mary was saying these crazy things about having God's baby and Joseph figured she must just be drawing inspiration from the mythologies.  He figured that she was a nutcase.

{From Matthew 1:19-21}

But, since he was an 'honorable guy with good character', he decided he'd keep the info private and just forget about her so that the town wouldn't stone her to death for disobeying the law.

Then, he had a dream in which an angel appeared to him and said, "Joseph, Mary isn't crazy.  Go ahead and marry her.  God really is the Father of the Baby.

She'll have a Son, and you'll name Him Jesus because He's going to save people from their sins."

{From Matthew 1:24-25}

Then Joseph woke up, thought about everything, and decided that He'd do what the angel said.  He and Mary were soon married.

And, Joseph and Mary didn't consummate the marriage until after Jesus had been born.

{From Luke 2:1-35}

A little while later, Caesar Agustus wanted to know where people were from, what their annual incomes were, how many children they had, etc.  So, he decreed a census. 

(This was during Quirinius' reign as governor.)

So, everyone had to travel in heavy traffic until they got back to the homes they had left.

Joseph (great-great-...-grandson of David) left Nazareth, Galilee and went to Bethlehem, Judea (where David was from).

Mary went with him.  She was pregnant and fussy.  The trip was especially hard on her back and she didn't enjoy it one bit.  She wanted a tuna and peanut butter milkshake.

As it turns out, Mary's water broke and she had to give birth in a dung-scented stable in Bethlehem.

She gave birth to her first child, a Son.  Then, she wrapped Him up tightly so He'd quit squirming out of the feed-trough.  They were only in the stable because the inn had no vacancies.  After all, there must have been many returning to Bethlehem for the census. 

Not too far away, there was a gang of shepherds making sure their sheep didn't fall off of any cliffs or run away or get run over or eaten by predators.

All of the sudden, a shining man stepped out of nowhere and the area was illuminated by God's utter awesomeness. The shepherds cowered and nearly wet themselves.

Then, the shining man said "It's ok, guys.  I've got some awesome news and you're going to be psyched! 

Over in Bethlehem, the human incarnation of God was just born.  He's going to save the world.

You're not being Punk'd.  Look for an infant bundled up in a feed-trough."

Then, out of thin air, a bunch of more shiny, flying angels appeared and started worshiping God and belting out powerful sounding phrases like, "Let the most supreme Glory be to God; the earth be filled with peace and good will towards men!"

This went on for a while. Then, when the angels had gone back into the heavens and the shepherds had regained bladder control, they said to each other, "What the ****!?!  That was awesome!  We absolutely have to go check it out."

They dropped their sheepsticks and sprinted to the stable.  When they caught their breaths again and stopped seeing spots, they found Mary, Joseph, and the Infant.

After they saw Him, they told all their friends and changed their facebook statuses to "*Shepherd's Name* is in awe" and would later comment on each other's pages and video blog it.

All the people who heard their story thought it was freaking awesome.

Mary stayed deep in thought for a while.  And Joseph saw her get that look that mothers get all the time. 

Then, that same night, the shepherds came back and danced and sang and bowed and worshipped.

Eight days later, the Infant was circumcised and named Jesus because an angel told Mary to name Him that before He was even two-celled.

After the three had waited out the "proper purification waiting time" of the day, they brought Jesus to to the city to be dedicated in a church.

It was the Abrahamic-monotheist thing to do.

They also slaughtered two little birdies according to the law of the Lord.

This old man named Simeon, who was very dedicated to the Scriptures and a really swell guy, had the Holy Spirit on him.

He knew that he wouldn't die before seeing God-On-Earth.

The Spirit led him to the temple.  And, Mary and Joseph brought baby Jesus to the altar.

Simon had the honor of holding Him and performing the dedication which went something like this:

"Lord, now I can die happy.

I've seen the One who will save the world.

And, you're going to make this salvation known.

He's going to make the lost Gentiles see how to be saved and bring glory to the Israelites."

And Mary and Joseph blushed and talked in hushed tones wondering how they were supposed to deal with this weird old man saying all of this crazy stuff about their Kid.

Simeon went right on with the ceremony and said a blessing over the parents. Then he looked right at Mary and said,

"This Child is special. He's going to shake things up and bring about a sign that will be denied.

A sword will pierce right into your soul also so that a bunch of secrets will come to light."

Mary hoped she had what it would take to raise the Christ.  She started to tear up.

{From Matthew 2:1-11}

After Jesus had been born in Judea in the days of Herod, the king, sages from the East came to Jerusalem.

They started asking, "Where is the Child who has been born King of the Jews?  We saw His star to the South West while we were in the East and have come to worship Him.

When Herod heard this, his insecurities and fears led to outrage and made life miserable for the people of Jerusalem.

So, after he called a meeting with all the smartest people in Jerusalem, he asked them where this Christ would be born.

They said he'd be born in Bethlehem, Judea because a prophet had prophesied it:

"Bethlehem, you aren't the least of Judah; for out of you a Ruler will come who will act as Israel's Shepherd."

Then, Herod called a secret meeting with the sages and asked them when the star had appeared. He used their answer to figure out about how old Jesus would be by then.

He then sent the sages to Bethlehem and told them, "When you eventually find this Christ Child, come back and tell me so that I can worship Him too."

The sages left and kept following the star, which they had seen before, until it stood over Jesus' location.

Seeing the star again, the sages were elated and did nerdy dances while giving each other high fives.

After they eventually arrived at the house, they saw the young Child playing with His mother, Mary.  Immediately, they bowed down and worshipped Him.  Then they gave Him gifts of gold, perfume, and pricey medicine.

Afterwards, an angel warned them in a dream that Herod was a dirty liar and that they should take an alternate route back to their own country. They did so.

On Identity

A while ago, I was thinking about identity and how it applies to my belief systems. In a nutshell, I was trying to define to myself the identity of God. Then, I got to wondering: if identities are derived from constants, how can anyone define something that is infinite? God has been around since before there was past tense. He's seen every change everywhere. So, if my way of thinking about identity is right, the only thing that could define God is God himself. Then I remembered reading about a dialogue between Moses and God that takes place in Exodus 3. 

So, Moses is a little freaked because this bush that's on fire is telling him that God has heard the anguish of the slave nation of Israel, and it's time for the Israelites to go to some sort of utopia occupied by a bunch of crazy barbarian types. 

Then, God says, "Go. I am sending you to Pharaoh to bring my people the Israelites out of Egypt." Moses flips. He basically says, "Are you serious, God? I'm pretty lame at parties and things and I don't have any cool talents." (that's a paraphrase, guys) God replies, "Don't sweat it. I''ll be with you. And, I'm freaking awesome." (also a paraphrase) So, Moses knows he has to do what this bush-burning God says. He still has questions, though. Says Moses, "Suppose I go to the Israelites and say to them, 'The God of your fathers has sent me to you,' and they ask me, 'What is his name?' Then what shall I tell them?" 

Then God says something really monumental. I had never really paid attention or understood the significance before. He says, "Ehyeh asher ehyeh." which means "I am that I am" or, if you prefer, "I shall be that I shall be."

Do you see how perfect that answer is? He defines His existence using only His existence. Saying just three words, God is implying a whole bunch of things.

1. God is eternal. To most Christians, this seems like a no-brainer, but I bet there are many who require proof. Here's your proof, doubters. If God wasn't eternal, he would have defined His existence in reference to something else.
2. God's viewpoint is the only one that matters here. He wasn't given a name by others because He's existed since there were no others.
   
3. God never changes. See Malachi 3:6 for confirmation.
   

It seems then, that this eternal God is the ultimate point of reference. All things can be defined by subsequently higher powers, but the ultimate definition is based on the relationship with God. The New Testament makes it very clear that the only thing that really matters, when everything is said and done, is a person's relationship with God. That's pretty obvious. But, "Ehyeh asher ehyeh." seems to imply that there was a form of Christianity before Jesus.

It makes sense. Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob all had very close relationships with The Almighty. "I say to you that many will come from the east and the west, and will take their places at the feast with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven."(Matt. 8:11) So did Elija. "Elijah went up to heaven in a whirlwind." (2Kings 2:11) So, it seems like God was the same before and after Jesus came. To get to heaven before Jesus, a person had to do a bunch of draining rituals and, most importantly have a good relationship with God. After Jesus, it gets easier, but the relationship is still the important thing.

I've chosen to define myself by my loving relationship with Ehyeh. If my beliefs are right, this is the best possible choice. If they're wrong, it doesn't matter anyway. If you're reading this and you haven't chosen yet, I encourage you to do so very soon.

What is it like to be a bat? I know it's a strange question, but I assure you it's relevant. So, what is it like? Can you imagine it? I doubt it. I can't even imagine it. I've tried and failed each time.

When I try to imagine what it would be like to be a bat, I think about being in the body of a bat. Rather, I imagine I'm blind and I have excellent hearing and can fly and like mosquitoes more than pizza. But, I'm limited in that I can only imagine what it would be like for Curtis the human to be a bat. I've never been Curtis the bat. And, I have no frame of reference from which to draw any sort of inference about what it's like to be a bat.

The problem is consciousness. It is obvious that organisms have physical properties and observable behaviors. Properties and behaviors can be described with a universal sort of clarity we refer to as objectivity. But, consciousness is not such an objective property. In fact, I believe consciousness to be an entirely subjective character of experience. I can describe in depth what a bat does. I can describe in depth what physical properties a bat has. But, I am at a total loss of words to describe what it is like to be a bat to that bat.

Consciousnesses are entirely subjective and unique reference frames through which the world is experienced. I think that consciousness and the mind are linked. Maybe consciousness is the mind...

--Question originally posed by Thomas Nagel in Philosophical Review--

Along the same subject, think about Mary the brilliant neuroscientist. Mary has spent the entirety of her past life in a black and white library. In this library, everything is black and white. Everything Mary has learned about neuroscience has, up to this point, been supplied by a black and white TV and the myriad of books in the library. Mary has recently become absolutely fascinated with tomatoes. She knows that a ripe tomato is round, shiny and red. She knows everything there is to know about the physical characteristics of tomatoes and how to make them grow. Though she has never seen red, has never even seen a color that is not black or white or gray, Mary knows the exact frequency that light must vibrate with in order to produce red. 

Today, 5 minutes ago actually, someone unlocked the door to the outside, took Mary by the hand, and brought her to a garden. It was there that, for the first time, Mary saw a ripe tomato.

Did Mary learn anything new?

--Question originally posed by Frank Jackson in The Journal of Philosophy LXXXIII--

If there is something about the experience of seeing red (namely, what it's like) that Mary learns, then the experience is not completely explained by the physical facts alone. I believe that the "what it's like" is the essence of the mind. I know of no better way to convey my impressions about the mind than to point to experience.

Maybe you're wondering, "This is all great, but why should Christians care?" Scripture can answer that.

"Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" Jesus replied: "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind." -Matt. 22:36-37

It seems pretty hard to love God with your mind if you don't have an understanding of what the mind is. Though I believe the Bible is the most complete resource for insight about truth, I'd never heard a satisfactory explanation of the nature of the mind until I expanded my search for truth into other philosophical texts. This may be alarming to those Christians who feel like the Bible is the only credible source of truth. But, it's not. If God is the God of truth. Then, all truth everywhere is ours. 

Paul was well aware of this. When he was ministering to the Athenians he said, "For in him we live and move and have our being. As some of your own poets have said, 'We are his offspring.' "-Acts 17:28 For Paul to have known what the poets of the day said, he must have read them. That's kind of like a Christian today gleaning truth from something by Eminem. I know the idea's a little weird, but that's the kind of God I serve. All truth is His. Justin Martyr, a Christian philosopher said, "What anybody has said about the truth belongs to us, the Christians." The fact is, if there is any truth anywhere in the universe that does not fit into the philosophy and lifestyle outlined in the Bible, then Jesus was not the Christ.

I believe that Jesus was and is the Christ. I believe that all truth everywhere is mine. And, I believe that Frank Jackson was onto something. It makes sense that the nature of the mind is the experience, the "what it's like". It fits with the Scriptures.

Based on my Biblical research, I think the "heart" that the authors refer to could also be called "beliefs and desires". I think that the "soul" could be called "ability to choose" or "morality". If what I think is right, then Matt. 22:36-37 could be read something like this:

"Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" Jesus replied: "Love the Lord your God with all your beliefs and desires by being as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves. Love the Lord by choosing to refrain from what is wrong and to strive for what is righteous. Love the Lord by keeping a high standard of morality. And, love the Lord by actually doing what is good. Then, you'll be able to tell others what it's like"

11/4/08

Well, it's happened. The Democratic Party has finally achieved a tri-fecta: Presidency, Senate, House of Representatives. It's been a very long campaign, and Americans have spoken. Their king has come (He's not my king.).

My sincere hope is that the change will truly be for the good. Based on my own observations and on my conversations both with like and unlike-minded individuals, I don't foresee a greater good coming. I see legalized abortion, kindergarden sexual education classes, and further advancement of the homosexual agenda to be recognized as a minority class and thereby gain civil rights. I see incremental tax raises and a general movement towards moral uncertainty and ambiguity. I see change coming.

Our new president seems to me to believe in the power of knowledge and the right of a person to choose what he/she wants regardless of the moral implications of that knowledge. Unfortunately, Obama's pro-choice stance is based in the incredibly limited reality of "right until proven wrong". But, how can an upstanding American citizen disagree with his views? Are they unpatriotic? On the contrary, they resonate with "innocent until proven guilty". What ideal could be more patriotic? They are absolutely patriotic. But, I won't say they're right. 

There is an incredible amount of evidence supporting the idea that life begins with fertilization. I hold this view myself. However, I do not believe that awareness begins with fertilization. Does a zygote know it exists? I don't think so. But, as cells multiply and take on the shape of a human, it becomes increasingly harder to tell just when cognizance comes into effect. Tragically, there's a medical double standard in regards to threatening one's life-potential. 

Hypothetical Horace, age 7, has just fallen into a comatose state and has likely suffered brain damage enough to make him mentally challenged. Horace's life-potential has taken a sharp turn. Though his life may still be enjoyable for him and others, it is certain that his care-taker just inherited a good deal of day-to-day difficulty. There are now two options:

1. Difficult - Raise and love Horace.
2. Easy - Kill Horace while he's unaware.

I grant that the second, easy option might not be so easy if Horace's care-takers have fond memories of life before the impediment. Luckily, this difficulty can be eliminated by reducing Horace's age until memories and relational connection based on experience are no longer part of the equation. For this example, we'll say the necessary age is now 3 seconds old. It is perfectly reasonable to argue that a 3 second old person is unaware he is a person at all. Maybe he physically feels things, but it is reasonable to assume he doesn't comprehend these feelings. So, were he to be killed, the only result would be elimination of Horace's life potential...

Do you see the problem? If it's morally wrong to kill a 7 year old, why should it be any less wrong to kill a 6 year old, a 2 year old, a newborn, an infant being birthed, an infant still in gestation? It is just as wrong, it just doesn't hurt others as much. After killing an unborn baby, there's really no relational reminiscing to do. You don't remember that time you took him to the lake to watch the ducks because, you didn't take him. In fact, you eliminated his potential to ever see those ducks. You didn't even ask what he wanted. Granted, he couldn't communicate even if he had wanted a chance to live and see ducks. But, coma patients can't communnicate. Does that make it okay to stick tongs into their brains and wiggle 'em around untill the steady beeps become one long, flat tone?

No human has the authority to decide if another should live or die. That's why murder is wrong. Hypothetical Dale claims he has the authority to choose whether Horace lives or dies. From where is this authority obtained? If Dale is merely human, then, by Dale's logic, any other human should have the authority to choose whether Dale lives or dies. 

People either have a right to live or they have the right to kill and be killed. If people have a right to live, then killing is wrong because it removes the victim's potential to fulfill that right. The two rights are incompatible. One must be, the other must not. I believe people have a right to live. I believe people have souls and minds and are capable of loving and having opinions. I believe that our God-instilled-morality gives us this right to life.

Our new president seems to me to believe in the power of knowledge and the right of a person to choose what he/she wants regardless of the moral implications of that knowledge. He believes that people have the right to live and the right to kill. His election to president is historically relevent in large part because he is part of a minority. And, minorities care that they are minorities because they fear their collective voice won't be heard. 

Unborn people are of a different minority. They are incapable of communication. It is assured that their collective voice will not be heard because they have no voices in the first place. How is it that one man, who is now in a position to make the African-American minority voice heard, can give authority to kill another unvoiced minority? Firstly, had another done this while he was once part of that infant minority, he never would have been president. Secondly, the authority to kill is not Obama's to give.

Unfortunately, I can not scientifically prove the presence nor absence of the supernatural entity we call the mind in an unborn child. I doubt there will ever be definitive proof. And, as long as there is not proof, the idea that any progressive stage of a zygote is alive will be left to interpretation. A person could still say that eliminating this progressed zygote's life-potential is "right until proven wrong." And, that person would never be called unpatriotic.

Abortion is just one of the many concerning topics surrounding this coming presidential term. I haven't even started with homosexual "marriage" or economic policies. Needless to say, I am deeply concerned about the state of our national future. I disagree with many of the Democratic Party's views, and the party's primary cause for liberty before morality is not encouraging.

Obama will be the president for at least 4 years (probably only 4 years if he seriously tries to enact change). I currently don't agree with his views. But, I will respect him as he has been entrusted with a great amount of authority. My prayer is that my current concerns are shown to be foolish. I would like nothing more than to be able to look back and say, "I shouldn't have been so upset. It's all worked out for the good." Until that day when my fears are abated though, I will be watching scrutinously and praying steadfastly.

May God help America.

Warning: The following is a bunch of philosophical mumbo jumbo.

The Paradox of Identity isn't a paradox. It's a series of competing terminologies used to define an abstract idea.

Identity is based on reference points. In an extreme sense, something can only be identified as being different from something else if there is a reference point from which the one thing differs from the other. This is implicit in the very concept of identity. To say that identity has no formal definition is merely to invite a paradox into your own personal reality.

Example: in a spatial reference frame (room of some sort) there exists a green 5kg rubber cube located at (2,2,0)meters. If the "green 5kg rubber cube located at (2,2,0)meters" is moved to (2,1,0), the subject of this example is still a "green 5kg rubber cube". If the "green 5kg rubber cube" subject is deformed into a sphere, the subject is still green, 5kg in mass, and composed of rubber. This process of systematically changing only one property of the subject could be repeated until the subject shared no properties with its initial self. The subject is now a blue 50kg steel sphere located at (2,1,0)meters. The question posed by philosophers is this: does the current subject have the same identity as the initial subject?

My answer to this: it depends on the reference frame. It seems obvious that, since the subject of the discussion has not changed to another object, the current subject must share identities with the initial subject. And, it is also obvious that I can't reference the current subject without first having some frame of reference. But this is getting confusing, so let's assign names. The "green 5kg rubber cube located at (2,2,0)meters" is called Smith. The "blue 50kg steel sphere located at (2,1,0)meters" is called Jones. The question now becomes: is Smith identical to Jones? Do these subjects share an identity? Now, I'd have to say no, they don't. They are in every way discernible from one another. So, because they share no transitive quality, they are in no way identical. They are different. They are not the same. Actually, there is one transitive quality: Smith becomes Jones. We know this is true because the subject of the sentence has always been the previous subject with 1 change in property. But, if the subject wasn't the subject I would be talking about nothing... So, I can't talk about a thing with out talking about it and thereby providing a reference frame... This is becoming too abstract to consider. We need something concrete to discuss.

All of this rambling is mere nonsense if there is no practical application, so I shall provide one: You. What is your identity? Look at a picture of yourself from 5 minutes ago/5 days ago/5 years ago. Are you the same person? Define the following word: I.

This universe in which we live is entirely relational. "That the universe is relational" is a continuous property of the universe. Because it doesn't change, I can define the universe. 

Living in this universe consists of comparisons of states from reference frames. These comparisons tend to fluctuate as time goes on and nature "works its course". Our bodies are constantly changing. Therefore, they can act only as an instantaneous identifier. Our thoughts are also constantly changing. What can be done to identify one person from another?

I have a proposition. We should give names to each other. We could also identify persons from one another by cause and effect. When two people are responsible (physically speaking) for the creation of a third, we will call the responsible male "Father" and the female "Mother". The created third will be called the "Child" or "Offspring" of the father and mother. These qualities will never change and can therefore be used as an unchanging, constant identifier. That a child's mother and father continue to be his/her mother and father is constant. The relation persists. It does not change or fluctuate. 

The father and mother should issue the child his/her name. It would be fitting. Obviously, the child will be too young when it is born to even grasp the idea of a name. So, it wouldn't be prudent to name it "goobleeburwaaaa" or whatever we thought it was saying. Now, this child will be forever identified as [Name], [son/daughter] of [father] and [mother]. We should record all of this on a document and include with it a frame of reference for the child. By having this frame of reference the child will be able to live relationally and sensibly (or so we hope). It can be arbitrary, but it needs to be a thing that happens only once and never again or else things will get confusing for the child... How about the date? Yes, that should work. We will issue this child a "Date of Birth" from which he/she can calculate the number of days he/she has lived among human beings. Then, he/she can make relational comparisons and have an identity. The world can make sense to the child.

This lengthy situational description only serves to show that, indeed, the universe is relational. It's implicitly understood that when a person "A" says for another "B" to "define" a word "shroobiness", A wants B to put shroobiness into terms that are somehow constant but are also capable of being referenced. So, when A says, "Shroobiness is that feeling you get after sitting in a chair (or other sort of furniture) that is already warm from someone else's having just previously sat in it." B can now perfectly comprehend shroobiness. A now knows that he feels shrooby. A knows what it means to feel shrooby. Shroobiness depends on relative temperatures, furniture of a sort (relative shapes of solid materials), time (ralative to when the other person left the chair), and relative posture. The word has been defined. It has been described using relational concepts.

If this seems false, define something that depends on nothing else's point of reference.  Then put it in the comments.

The Paradox of Identity:

• Some things persist.
• If thing "X" and thing "Y" are identical, then every property X has is one that Y has also. (This is the "Indiscernibility of Identicals")
• If something persists, then it has an age at one time and another age at another time.
  

The paradox applies to self identity. I.E. looking at a picture of your past self and saying "That's me". According to these premises, "that" is not "me"...well, you in this case. Present You is older than Past You. So, you aren't identical with your past self. If you're not identical, you share no identity... Are you the same person? Are you still yourself? You have persisted. You have had different ages at different times. Then, is your identity the same? It appears as though the first premise must be false. But, it also appears as though you still exist...paradox.

As was stated earlier though, The Paradox of Identity isn't a paradox. It's a series of competing terminologies used to define an idea. According to the second premise, X and Y are identical only if there is no difference between them. Identity is thereby turned into a binary sort of quality. Either they are identical or they aren't. But, if "they" are identical, "they" must occupy the same space so they have the same spatial property. So, "they" are really just "it". There can be no 2 identical things. Identical twins don't exist. If you previously knew any identical twins, say a prayer for them...they no longer exist. That's the essence of Premise 2.

Premise three says that "If something persists, then it has one age at one time and another at another time". Wait a minute, if that's true and if "Some things persist", then persistence must allow for a change in age (time property). But, the thing that persists is then not identical to its previous self. It loses its identity in time. Now, it's back to denying the truth of the first premise.

The problem in the premises is the lack of an outer reference frame. If a definition is truly a relational quality, and our minds really only understand concepts or ideas as they relate to other concepts or ideas, then the "Paradox" quality of the argument disappears when we give the "persisting things" names. We could give them any constant identifier to bring end to the paradox. Let me explain further.

John persists in that he continues to be John and to carry the qualities of himself. When those qualities change, he is still John. His identity remains intact through change because he has a reference frame in which nothing changes. In his name-reference frame, he has a name: John. That never changes, so he always has an identity. However, his identity does change. One could visualize an identity as an infinitely long check list of relational qualities that one either does or doesn't have. If identity can be viewed that way, a person can have a changing identity. But, his current identity is never identical to his past identity.

• John persists.
• If "20 year-old John" and "40 year-old John" are identical, then every property "20 year-old John" has is one that "40 year-old John" has also. (This is the "Indiscernibility of Identicals")
• If John persists, then he has an age at one time and another age at another time.
  

Now, these premises are all true. Simply put, "20 year-old John" is not identical to "40 year-old John". So there is no paradox at all.